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  INSTALL Ujiunge NASI 👇👇   Ukiwa mtu wa kuangalia mambo kwa juu juu basi kila kitu kwako kitakuwa kigumu. Kusoma unaweza kuona ni kugumu, kufanya kazi kugumu, hata kusubiri mshahara unaweza kuona ni kugumu. Urahisi kwako unaweza kuwa katika kutumia pesa, pengine  na kula tu. Ila watu waerevu na wenye uvumilivu kwako kila kitu kinaweza kuwa tofauti na wewe. 1. Unachoona kigumu kwao wanahisi si ugumu bali ni changamoto za kuzidisha jitihada na umakini tu. Kwenye mapenzi pia hali haiko tofauti sana. Wale wanao achana kila siku si kama ndiyo wanakosewa sana kuliko wale ambao hawaachani, hapana. Suala ni lile lile tu. 2. Wakati wengine wakiona tofauti zao ni kama changamoto za kusomana tabia na kuamua kuishi kutokana na kila mmoja kumjua mwenzake. Wenzao wanaona suluhisho la yote ni kila mmoja kuwa na maisha yake. Suala la uvumilivu kwao hamna. 3. Hakuna mapenzi duniani yanayoweza kushamiri bila suala hili. Usipokuwa na moyo wa uvumilivu katika mapenzi basi kila mtu utamuon...

How men fall in love – The seven stages of love Stage 1 – Appreciation This is all about physical appearance and instant attraction. Now this should clear the doubts out for women though. Men are rather shallow when it comes to getting attracted at first sight. While women may fall in love in the first conversation, men are attracted to a woman only for her physical aspects, and nothing else. Physical appearance is paramount for men, but it may not necessarily be the entire package. Each guy has his own preferences in what he likes about a woman, be it her face, her legs, her smile or even the way she runs her hands through her hair. A guy may not even know what it is about a girl that he likes, but if he finds something attractive in her, he may experience the appreciation stage.  Stage 2 – Infatuation Men appreciate a lot of women on a daily basis. They try to steal second glances or get a girl’s attention all the time. But it’s not...

Are you in a Love triangle situation?? here's how to handle that A love triangle is a sustained sexual and/or emotional attachment between two people, one of whom is in a committed relationship with another person. While a love triangle may begin with a casual, short term affair between these two people, the term generally refers to a more complex relationship. A love triangle is one of the more complicated psychological relationship issues, and yet it's also one of the most common. Method One of Three: Identifying Your Role Examine your place in the love triangle. There are two primary forms of love triangle: the "rivalrous" and the "split object." In the rivalrous, you are one of two people competing for the exclusive love of the third person. In the split object, you are the person whose affection is divided between two lovers.  [1] Split-object relationships can also be imaginary. This occurs when someone imagines that they're in love wi...

Do you know how to use Love sayings? Here are some for you There are many sayings on this page and a number of ways to use these. Here are three suggestions: 1.) Secret Note Write one or more of these on a slip of paper and put it in their lunch, purse, wallet, etc. Then, when they don't expect to find it, they will see the message and be grateful. Be warned though, if your relationship isn't to this level yet, it may seem like an invasion of privacy. 2.) Romantic Card This is like the first option, but you start with a romantic card from the store. You then put several of these lines in to help bolster up the message. This is a fantastic idea for nearly any occasion and there is a card for nearly any occasion. You can also get extra points if the message on the card connects to the message you write. 3.) Unique Product You can always build a unique product that you can then give to your love interest. A daily calendar, a shirt, a pillow, or even more. If this inc...

The Red lights indicating marriage failure 1. You don’t share anymore Communication is the pinnacle of a healthy, successful relationship. Are you the last to know about your partner’s decisions? Do you feel like you don’t know what’s going on in your partner’s life anymore? It’s not necessary to share every thought with each other, but being able to share your successes and talk about your problems, concerns, and insecurities is crucial. If you find that communication has broken down or become nonexistent in your relationship, it’s a major negative indicator of the health of your relationship. : 2. You fantasize about being single It’s not unusual to reminisce about the “good old times” when you used to paint the town red with your single friends. But, if you find that you're daydreaming about how much better your life would be if you weren’t married, it may be time to dig a little deeper to find out wh...

Antibiotic for loneliness Loneliness Has an Antidote and You’ll Never Guess What It Is I’m somebody who’s struggled with feelings of loneliness my whole life. It’s a big part of why I decided to become a relationship coach. I wanted to understand why some of my relationships felt more substantial than others. I wanted to understand why sometimes I relished being alone, yet other times being alone evoked feelings of profound sadness. The question I wanted to answer was this: What makes some relationships feel better than others? It was a mystery I was determined to solve. I have always been somebody who constantly alternated between desiring to be alone, which I now know is classic introvert behavior, and desiring to be with others. The thing was, I only wanted to be with others in a very particular way. I didn’t want to chit-chat, mingle, or even party. I wanted to feel warmth radiating between me and the other person. I wanted to feel safe and...