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How men fall in love – The seven stages of love Stage 1 – Appreciation This is all about physical appearance and instant attraction. Now this should clear the doubts out for women though. Men are rather shallow when it comes to getting attracted at first sight. While women may fall in love in the first conversation, men are attracted to a woman only for her physical aspects, and nothing else. Physical appearance is paramount for men, but it may not necessarily be the entire package. Each guy has his own preferences in what he likes about a woman, be it her face, her legs, her smile or even the way she runs her hands through her hair. A guy may not even know what it is about a girl that he likes, but if he finds something attractive in her, he may experience the appreciation stage.  Stage 2 – Infatuation Men appreciate a lot of women on a daily basis. They try to steal second glances or get a girl’s attention all the time. But it’s not...

Are you in a Love triangle situation?? here's how to handle that A love triangle is a sustained sexual and/or emotional attachment between two people, one of whom is in a committed relationship with another person. While a love triangle may begin with a casual, short term affair between these two people, the term generally refers to a more complex relationship. A love triangle is one of the more complicated psychological relationship issues, and yet it's also one of the most common. Method One of Three: Identifying Your Role Examine your place in the love triangle. There are two primary forms of love triangle: the "rivalrous" and the "split object." In the rivalrous, you are one of two people competing for the exclusive love of the third person. In the split object, you are the person whose affection is divided between two lovers.  [1] Split-object relationships can also be imaginary. This occurs when someone imagines that they're in love wi...

Do you know how to use Love sayings? Here are some for you There are many sayings on this page and a number of ways to use these. Here are three suggestions: 1.) Secret Note Write one or more of these on a slip of paper and put it in their lunch, purse, wallet, etc. Then, when they don't expect to find it, they will see the message and be grateful. Be warned though, if your relationship isn't to this level yet, it may seem like an invasion of privacy. 2.) Romantic Card This is like the first option, but you start with a romantic card from the store. You then put several of these lines in to help bolster up the message. This is a fantastic idea for nearly any occasion and there is a card for nearly any occasion. You can also get extra points if the message on the card connects to the message you write. 3.) Unique Product You can always build a unique product that you can then give to your love interest. A daily calendar, a shirt, a pillow, or even more. If this inc...

The Red lights indicating marriage failure 1. You don’t share anymore Communication is the pinnacle of a healthy, successful relationship. Are you the last to know about your partner’s decisions? Do you feel like you don’t know what’s going on in your partner’s life anymore? It’s not necessary to share every thought with each other, but being able to share your successes and talk about your problems, concerns, and insecurities is crucial. If you find that communication has broken down or become nonexistent in your relationship, it’s a major negative indicator of the health of your relationship. : 2. You fantasize about being single It’s not unusual to reminisce about the “good old times” when you used to paint the town red with your single friends. But, if you find that you're daydreaming about how much better your life would be if you weren’t married, it may be time to dig a little deeper to find out wh...

Antibiotic for loneliness Loneliness Has an Antidote and You’ll Never Guess What It Is I’m somebody who’s struggled with feelings of loneliness my whole life. It’s a big part of why I decided to become a relationship coach. I wanted to understand why some of my relationships felt more substantial than others. I wanted to understand why sometimes I relished being alone, yet other times being alone evoked feelings of profound sadness. The question I wanted to answer was this: What makes some relationships feel better than others? It was a mystery I was determined to solve. I have always been somebody who constantly alternated between desiring to be alone, which I now know is classic introvert behavior, and desiring to be with others. The thing was, I only wanted to be with others in a very particular way. I didn’t want to chit-chat, mingle, or even party. I wanted to feel warmth radiating between me and the other person. I wanted to feel safe and...

Formula Za Kumtumia Mwanamke SMS ili Aweze Kukujibu Kupokea jibu kutoka kwa mwanamke wakati mwingine si rahisi. Wanawake ni viumbe ambao hawatabiriki kirahisi. Anaweza akajibu jumbe zako na mara ghafla unapata kuona amekujeukia na hajibu meseji zako tena. Mara nyingi ukiona hatua kama hii fahamu ya kuwa amepoteza hamu na wewe na itakuwa vigumu kwake kuweza kuongea na wewe tena. Nakumbuka hivi juzi kabla janga hili la Corona Virus na  karantini kutujia, niliweza kupewa namba na mwanamke niliyekutana naye mtaani. Kama kawaida nilijua ya kuwa itakuwa rahisi kwangu kuweza kumteka mwanamke huyu bila wasiwasi. Baada ya siku mbili ya kutumiana jumbe kwa chat, niliona amepunguza mazungumzo yake na mwisho kabisa akaacha kuchat na mimi. Ilikuwa pigo kwangu kwa kuwa haijakuwa jambo la kawaida kuweza kushindwa kuchat na mwanamke. Lakini uzuri juzi, wakati karantini imeanza na kila mtu amelazimishwa kukaa nyumbani kwa wale ambao hawana mishe mijini, alianza kunijibu yeye mwenyewe. ...

NJIA ZA KUPUNGUZA AU KUTIBU TATIZO LA KUTOFIKA KILELENI Baada ya kupeana mabusu na romance hadi kila mmoja anakuwa amesisimka kiasi cha kuwa tayari kwa kurushwa hadi kufika kileleni, ghafla baada ya msuguano mmoja tu mwanaume ameshamaliza na tayari hoi anageuka na kulala zake usingizi mzito wakati huohuo bibie bado kwanza ndo alianza kupata raha na sasa ameachwa kwenye mataa anazubaa akiugulia kukosa raha yenyewe. Jambo la kuhuzunisha ni kwamba baadhi ya wanaume huweza kufika kileleni haraka mno; dakika chache tu baada ya kuingiza uume kwenye uke, ingawa hii humpa mwanaume raha ya ajabu hata hivyo anaweza kumwacha mke wake katika kukatishwa tamaa na kutoridhika hasa kama ni mwanamke ambaye kufika kwake kileleni hutegemea msuguano (thrusting) wa uume kwenye uke wake. Kawaida mwanaume huweza kuwa tayari kufika kileleni kila baada ya mipigo 50 (kuingiza na kutoka ndani ya uke) [thrusting] na wakati huohuo inachukua zaidi ya dakika 10 kwa mwanamke kufikia kileleni (siyo wanawake wo...